Books for Your Bride: The Fiction Fan

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In the (almost) 10 years Tony and I have been married, we have come to one undeniable conclusion: We have different tastes. He likes milk chocolate; I like dark. He orders a Venti Americano; I drink green tea. He likes meaty works like Owen and Calvin; I prefer easier-to-chew contemporary works. But there is one particularly irreconcilable difference between us, one that between bibliophiles the battle-lines run deep: He prefers non-fiction, and I like fiction.

tssfiction.jpgUntil recently, I would steal my literature moments like a kid sneaking from the cookie jar: a chapter or two at the gym, a few pages between pushing kids on the swings, or lately, reading the classics to our son. I have actually “saved” fiction books to read while in labor for each of our children. (Apparently we need to get a babysitter more often.)

Why all the caution around fiction? Christian fiction today often gets a bad rap, partly because much of fiction today deserves neither the term “Christian” nor “literature.” From pithy tales to outright sin, the world of Christian fiction is not one we can always confidently recommend. But we are thankful for fictional works that have pointed our eyes to the Cross, and we’re happy to recommend these to you.

1. Biblical Fiction

Lynn Austin. When I discuss fiction titles with other believers, Lynn Austin’s Chronicles of the Kings series is one of the tssaustin.jpgfirst I mention. Beginning with Gods and Kings, Austin masterfully retells the Old Testament accounts of Kings Ahaz, Hezekiah, and Manassah in a compelling and entertaining way. I have such a deeper understanding and appreciation of God’s work in the nations of Israel and Judah, and that is partly because these books kept driving me back to Scripture. By far, these are my favorite Christian and biblical fiction books.

One more note on this series: When I read through them, I snatched a book from Tony’s bookshelf that was very helpful in comparing this series to the Bible. It was an old harmony of Samuel, Kings, and Chronicles which set the corresponding biblical accounts side-by-side. There are two versions available we found: an older one here, and a newer one here.

2. Historical Fiction

Stephanie Grace Whitson. As a brand-new believer, I walked into a church bookstore in Lincoln looking fortsswalks.jpg something to read on the hour trip back to Omaha. I was pleasantly surprised, after being introduced to the historical fiction of Stephanie Grace Whitson, to discover that not only was she a Nebraskan, she attended the very church where Tony and I were saved. Her Prairie Winds series brought me through the delivery of our first child, Jonathan, and since then I have enjoyed her other historical fiction books as well. I appreciate her faithfulness to the Word and faithful communication of the Gospel. I have not read her more recent books, but her first series starts off with Walks the Fire. You might want to have the sequel ready as well, unless you need a sanctifying lesson in patience.

3. Biographies

If bad Christian fiction is spiritual junk food, a good biography is like a whole wheat cookie — the whole grain goodness of spiritual examples mixed with the sugar and salt of real-life drama. (Be sure to wash it down with the pure milk of God’s Word.)

We covered some of our favorite biographies in the History Buffy post, and you can find those here.

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Another excellent recommendation does not fit well into these categories so I’ll jot it down here. Recently, Tony pointed me a new book by Dr. Harry Kraus, a missionary surgeon in Africa. Kraus is noted in the literary world for his fictional writing but his newest is non-fictional. Breathing Grace casts his exciting medical experiences as illustrations of our need to be sustained daily by God’s grace. Just as the body lives off oxygen, so too does the soul live off a moment-by-moment supply of grace. Tony wrote a full review earlier this year. It’s not fiction, but Kraus is tuned into the fictional genre and his book will certainly appeal to fans of fiction.

4. Classics

One of the best things about being a parent is getting to read some of the great classic books you missed as a kid. From the Chronicles of Narnia to the Lord of the Rings, Tony and I are enjoying catching up on ourtssrings.jpg grade school education as we read to our son. Other favorite classics (not quite for a 6-year-old boy) include Jane Eyre and Pride and Prejudice. If your wife has already read these volumes, no doubt she loves them. A thoughtful gift might be a hardcover edition and a date-night “chick flick” movie edition of these books.

So that’s a very short list to get your fiction fix started. Now, will all the other TSS fiction fans please stand up? We’d love to hear your recommendations in the comments. Thank you for sharing!

One more category to come…thanks again for joining us on our early Christmas shopping trip!

Books for Your Bride: The History Buff(y)

tsskare.jpgby Karalee

Since the guys already bought their Christmas presents from Tony’s book recommendations this year, we’re taking time this week to do some early Christmas shopping for the ladies.

First, we looked at a few “one-size-fits-all” gifts, now we’re looking at specific options for different interests.tssreader.jpg

The History Buff (Buffy?)

Tell-tale signs your wife would enjoy this category: Her lucky numbers are 1517, 1492, and 1776. She knows the difference between the two Martin Luthers, the eight King Henrys, and the two Bunyans (an important fact in our family). She wins the “pin the date on the timeline” game at every homeschool party. Blindfolded.

Gift ideas

Luckily, the History Buffy can be an incredibly easy wife to buy gifts for. She loves books, and biographies are always a great choice. Here are some of our favorites, not only for their entertainment value, but also their sanctifying work and encouraging examples.

Idelette by Edna Gerstner – This is one of my favorite biographies. A good friend loaned me a copy several years ago, and I tracked my own copy down to re-read this year.tssidelette.jpg Though I believe this book is (sadly) out of print, you can still find used copies at Amazon or Half.com. Edna Gerstner beautifully crafted this biographical account of Idelette Calvin, the wife of the great Reformer John Calvin. Since Tony was working his way through Calvin’s Institutes on TSS this year, I thought I’d “follow along” from the biographical perspective of Calvin’s own helpmeet. A quick read that brings historical events to life, this is an entertaining account that challenged me to aspire to the love and care Idelette showed for her studious husband.

Jonathan and Sarah: An Uncommon Union by Edna Gerstner – Another well-written biographical account by Mrs. Gerstner is the story of Jonathan Edwards and his beloved wife, Sarah. I am greatly encouraged bytssgerstner2.jpg the way the Edwardses lived out Ephesians 5 in their marriage, creating a picture of Christ and the church that even inspired comment in George Whitfield’s biography. (Whitfield’s biography by Arnold Dallimore is #6 on Tony’s Top 20, and his favorite biography set.) Whitfield, who previously had considered a life of singleness, was convinced in his need for marriage due to the Christ-honoring couple he saw when visiting the Edwards family. That example is beautifully described in this book.

Faithful Women and Their Extraordinary God by Noel Piper – Even better than a single biography, Mrs. Piper takes the lives of five seemingly “ordinary” women and highlights God’s abundant grace to strengthen them in extraordinary ways. The chapter titles alone are beautiful picture of faith, such as: “Sarah Edwards, Faithful in the Mundane,” “Gladys Aylward, Faithful in Humility,” and “Esther Ahn Kim, Faithful in Suffering.” This book was so good, I loaned it to a friend, who passed it along to another friend, who passed it along to another friend … maybe I should ask for another one for Christmas! Learning about several of the women in this book encouraged me to dig deeper into a few of their lives. One of my favorites was the story of Esther Ahn Kim (see below).

If I Perish by Esther Ahn Kim – Our son must have heard the second chapter of this book a half-dozen times.tsskim.jpg Every time he saw me reading the moving biography of Korean Ahn Ei Sook, he asked me to read (again) the story of her standing tall amidst thousands of bowing worshippers at a pagan Japanese shrine. It is an inspiring account of obedience to Christ that illustrates the example of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego before King Nebuchadnezzar. Miss Ahn boldly prayed on her way to the shrine, “Today on the mountain, before the large crowd…I will proclaim that there is no other God beside You. This is what I will do for Your holy name.” The ensuing account of her hiding, persecution, imprisonment, and torture is an amazing story that will leave you in awe of God’s abundant grace amidst trial.

In Trouble and in Joy by Sharon James – Another inspiring collection of biographies, including the lives oftssjames.jpg Margaret Baxter, Sarah Edwards, Anne Steele, and Frances Ridley Havergal. The Girltalkers did an excellent interview series with Mrs. James earlier this year as a follow-up to their Book Club review of More Love To Thee, the biography of hymn writer Elizabeth Prentiss biography. (More info on that biography in the “Music Mom” post.)

Through Gates of Splendor by Elisabeth Elliot – A classic missionary biography that traces the lives of the incredibly faithful, deeply trusting missionary families who brought thetsselliot.jpg Gospel to the jungles of Ecuador in the late 1950s. There is now an audio book available, too. It would be fun to follow this book with a date night movie, End of the Spear, which dramatically recounts the work of God’s grace in the lives of both the missionary families and the Ecuador natives.

There are so many excellent biographies out there, and even though this list is getting long I have to make room for just two more that are on my current reading stack:

Anne Bradstreet by Heidi Nichols – “Why read Puritan poet Anne Bradstreet?” asks author Heidi Nichols (and wife of Stephen J. Nichols, who has written several excellent books.) Mrs. Nichols answers the question beautifully, “In contrast to the common delusion that we control our lives in today’s society, we can gain intssbradstreet.jpg Bradstreet the perspective of one who recognized God’s sovereign hand in every aspect of her life, in times of exuberance and in times of pain.” I am halfway through this book and thoroughly enjoying it. (And for those of you who played the “Who is She?” game … Now you know the rest of the story.)

Lady Jane Grey: The Nine Day Queen of England by Faith CookI don’t have this book yet, but have read others on the life of Lady Jane Grey, the “Nine Day Queen of England” and have been inspired by her faith in the midst of persecution. Recently, this account by Faith Cook has been recommended by both Sharon James and Tim Challies. Looks interesting and is even recommended for younger daughters. I think it would be a lovely idea to give to your wife and daughters as part of a “Mother-daughters” date package. Include a Starbucks or shopping center gift card and a copy of Girl Talk and pray for God’s grace to deepen the love and friendship between the women He has given you to lead.

Ultimately, the best gift you can give your wife is not one that can be wrapped in shiny red paper and tied with a bow. Centering your home around the Gospel, loving her as Christ loved the Church, and faithfully serving her in humility and grace is a gift that will prepare her heart not only for the year ahead, but for a lifetime with her Savior. Most importantly, the price tag of the gift doesn’t matter, because the ultimate price for our sin has already been paid by our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Loving her with this glorious Gospel is a priceless gift.

May God be glorified in your homes this Christmas!

Stay tuned this week as we serve up gift-giving ideas for:

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Books for Your Bride: The Trainer

tsskare.jpgby Karalee

Tony’s gone this week, so we’re sporting new colors at TSS and serving up Christmas gift ideas for the ladies. (Since many of our husbands already bought their Christmas presents from Tony’s book recommendations this year.)

First, we looked at a few “one-size-fits-all” gifts, now we’re looking at specific options for different interests.

“The Trainer”

Tell-tale signs your wife would enjoy this category: She owns 10 pairs of running shoes, and no high heels. There are more bike and stroller wheels in your garage than car and minivan tires. She does tsstrainer.jpgspelling drills with the kids in “three sets of ten, with 20 seconds rest in between.”

Bless this wife-on-the-run with resources that will not only exercise her heart, but also stretch her soul.

Gift ideas

Music: An iPod or other mp3 player can be an incredibly sanctifying gift – turning the daily run into an opportunity for meditation on God’s Word. (More on audio in the “one-size-fits-all” post here.)tssasleep.jpg

If she already has a music player, consider a new CD or workout mix that will lift her heartbeat to the Cross. Kick the pace up a bit with the remixed worship favorites in Asleep in a Storm from Sovereign Grace Music. Sermon Jams are another upbeat choice for the workout set. And just for fun, here is a TSS iMix from some of Tony’s favorite Jazzercise music.tssimix.jpg

Books: The Gospel Primer for Christians, which we reviewed in part one, is perfect for the treadmill. An interesting biography is Pure Gold about Eric Liddell: Scottish runner, Olympic gold medal winner, and missionary to China. (Find a positive review here at Tim Challies’ Discerning Reader.)

“Christmas Date” ideas: Start a “Christmas date night” tradition. (As Tony and I will be doing this year, thanks to the idea from our good friends Matthew and Hannah.) Because the holidays are tssliddell.jpgfull of busy celebrations with the kids and in-laws, a “Christmas date” is an opportunity to celebrate with just your bride. Whether you can schedule your date before Christmas or after, taking the time to spend with her will bless your friendship and your marriage. For the sporty wife, a brisk walk or ice skating would be a fun start to the evening. Then you can finish with hot cocoa and a date night movie, Chariots of Fire (based upon the life of Eric Liddell). You cantssliddellmovie.jpg follow-up with a family night movie another time and watch the new Torchlighters movie, also about Eric Liddell.

Ultimately, the best gift you can give your wife is not one that can be wrapped in shiny red paper and tied with a bow. Centering your home around the Gospel, loving her as Christ loved the Church, and faithfully serving her in humility and grace is a gift that will prepare her heart not only for the year ahead, but for a lifetime with her Savior. Most importantly, the price tag of the gift doesn’t matter, because the ultimate price for our sin has already been paid by our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Loving her with this glorious Gospel is a priceless gift.

May God be glorified in your homes this Christmas!

Stay tuned this week as we serve up gift-giving ideas for:

Books for Your Bride: The Music Mom

tsskare.jpg by Karalee

Tony’s gone this week, so we’re sporting new colors at TSS and serving up Christmas gift ideas for the ladies. (Since many of our husbands already bought their Christmas presents from Tony’s book recommendations this year.)

First, we looked at a few “one-size-fits-all” gifts, now we’re looking at specific options for different interests.

The Music Mom

Tell-tale signs your wife would enjoy this category: She sings in the shower, and it actually sounds good. She also sings in the car, when washing dishes, and when reading to the kids. She teaches the alphabet starting at Middle C.

Personal note: This particular category does not describe me. When I sing my baby to sleep, he falls asleep fast – just so I’ll stop singing, I presume. So I’m borrowing a few books tssmusicmom.jpgon this list from Sovereign Grace worship leader Bob Kauflin. (Who has an excellent reading list posted here on his blog.)

Bless this music-loving wife with a CDs and books that will not only create sound waves, but also send shock waves of grace to her soul.

Gift ideas

Music: For some of the best Gospel-saturated and theologically-sound music in one place, visit the Sovereign Grace store. You can buy entire albums or a single song at a time from the Songbox. Two of our favorite albums are Songs for the Cross-Centered Life and the Valley of Vision. The Christmas CD, Savior, is one we listen to all year long.

Another set of CDs we have listened to over and over again is the Hide the Word series from Mark and Stephen Altrogge. Their Scripture memory songs are very well done, and have helped us (and our son) to memorize many beautiful Scripture passages. One thing we appreciate in particular about the verses the Altrogges set to music is that they are noticeably Cross-centered.

Books: Biographies are one of my favorite literary genres, as they blend the meatiness of nonfiction with the9781581348484.jpg tssprentiss.jpgnosiness of peeking into someone else’s life. For a music fan, we recommend the biographies of two hymn writers, Elizabeth Prentiss and John Newton. You can find an excellent review series on the Prentiss biography at GirlTalk, and a glimpse into the Newton biography here at TSS.

A few worship and music related resources from the “highly recommended” list on Bob Kauflin’s blog include: Engaging with God (David Peterson), When I Don’t Desire God: How to Fight for Joy (John Piper), and Living the Cross-Centered Life (C.J. Mahaney), He also recommends the Valley of Vision, and we recommend (again) the Sovereign Grace CD based upon those prayers. (More info on the VoV in the “one size fits all” post here.)

Gift-giving ideas: The holidays are full of opportunities for local concerts, providing excellent ideas for a “Christmas date night.” Because the holidays are full of busy celebrations with the kids and in-laws, a Christmas date night is an opportunity to celebrate with just your bride. Whether you can schedule your date before Christmas or after, taking the time to spend with her alone will bless your friendship and your marriage. For the music-loving wife, a local concert or musical would be an excellent place to start. Or go out for coffee and read the first chapter of one of the recommended books together.

Ultimately, the best gift you can give your wife is not one that can be wrapped in shiny red paper and tied with a bow. Centering your home around the Gospel, loving her as Christ loved the Church, and faithfully serving her in humility and grace is a gift that will prepare her heart not only for the year ahead, but for a lifetime with her Savior. Most importantly, the price tag of the gift doesn’t matter, because the ultimate price for our sin has already been paid by our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Loving her with this glorious Gospel is a priceless gift.

May God be glorified in your homes this Christmas!

Stay tuned this week as we serve up gift-giving ideas for:

Books for Your Bride: One Size Fits All

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This week we’re doing some early Christmas shopping. And for guys who usually wait until December 24th to shop for their wife, this is early-early Christmas shopping. But we’re hoping that with the extra time you’ll have from getting your shopping done early, you’ll have more time to serve your family and enjoy the day.

To get started, here are three personal favorites that would make an excellent choice for every wife, no matter what season of life she’s in. Plus a fourth that you’ll have to resist the urge to buy for yourself.

#1 – The Gospel Primer for Christians

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By far, the book that has impacted my life more than any other this year (apart from God’s Word) is a tiny volume called The Gospel Primer for Christians. I first saw the Primer featured on GirlTalk, next heard it recommended by my pastor, and purchased it at our church bookstore later this spring. The description on their website says it well, “The Gospel Primer is a handy guide designed to help Christians experience the gospel more fully by preaching it to themselves every day.”

Through a busy year of settling into a new city, homeschooling, welcoming a new baby, and serving my family – this book has been at the top of my reading stack. I love its small, portable size, and the spiral binding makes it easy to read at the gym, while feeding a baby, or even while stuck in Minneapolis traffic. (I wouldn’t recommend the last one, however.)

Because every Scripture reference is printed as a footnote on the same page, I can grab this one volume to feed my soul with the pure milk of God’s Word, solid theological teaching, and meaty personal application. Some days, I would only read one page, or only one paragraph – but it always inspired me to meditate upon God’s word throughout the day.

Your wife would be blessed by having this helpful volume on top of her reading stack, too.

Find it from Cornerstone Fellowship Bible church here.

Gift-giving ideas: Since this book is quite affordable, it fits almost every budget (and is even downloadable from the CFBC website). You could also include it as part of a larger gift, like tucked in a new handbag or wrapped up with a Journaling Bible or LSB (see below). Thoughtful bookmarks would include a Starbucks gift card, or a coupon for free babysitting so she can get a quiet moment away.

#2 – The Valley of Vision

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After being up through the night with a new baby, many mornings it is difficult to organize my thoughts in prayer. Let’s just say my mental capacity is often far below the likes of Owen and Calvin – to something more along the lines of Blue and Barney.

But I don’t think that malady is reserved only for tired mothers. All of us have days where the words come slowly, or prayer seems rote. The Valley of Vision has been a tremendous means of grace in teaching me how to pray through these days.

Simply reading the thoughtful, Cross-centered prayers from faithful saints has helped me to identify areas to grow in my own approach to the throne of grace.

Gift-giving ideas: Tony knows of my fondness for the VoV, and last year kindly gave me the spoken CD version – along with the Sovereign Grace “Valley of Vision” music CD (where 12 of the prayers became the basis for incredibly Cross-centered, worshipful songs). Then we made a custom “mix CD” that merged the two. We took the audio prayers, and inserted them before each of the corresponding songs. (The CD jacket in the Sovereign Grace CD lists which prayer each song was based upon.) We have already worn out one copy of this CD, which we’ve kept in the car for some incredibly sanctifying road trips and surprisingly spiritual grocery runs.

#3 – A New Bible

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Literary Study Bible (LSB) Hardcover
ESV Journaling Bible

Some long-time TSS readers might remember the small Bible project Tony started for my birthday two years ago. The “Blank Bible” was originally intended as a gift for me, and I still have the trial version he made which I treasure.

When Tony developed the new-and-improved blank Bible design, however, somehow my name got put on the “backordered” list.

Tony made up for the backorder, and I received two new Bibles this year. First, Tony gave me a copy of the ESV Journaling Bible, and that is the one I have used most this year. The wide margins are helpful for note-taking and personal reflection. It’s much more portable than the 4-volume blank Bible, too. (Find Tony’s review here.)
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More recently, I got in on the excitement surrounding the new Literary Study Bible and received a copy from Tony. (Find his review here.) We’ve talked about going through the reading plan together next year, which is an area where you might like to encourage your wife. Setting aside just a few minutes a day to talk about what you are reading is a practice that is a blessing for many couples we know. For now, I’m following along the reading schedule (albeit a few weeks behind) in the LSB, but still taking notes in my Journaling Bible.

Gift-giving ideas: Present your wife a new Bible, with a personalization that shows your love and care for her. Select a few of your favorite verses, and write in the margins why they are meaningful to you. Include a personal note in the front of the Bible, and perhaps a favorite picture of your family together. Your wife knows how busy your day is, so the extra time you take to personalize her gift means so much.

#4 – an iPod

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As many of our friends know, we are a Mac family. So I hesitate to include this last category for fear that it shows our partisanship to our better than Windows chosen computer. So the first disclaimer, right off the bat is: Any mp3 player or electronic media is fine. And the second disclaimer is: Yes, I admit this recommendation is not a book. But it’s still an excellent gift for your bride.

Almost four years ago, Tony surprised me with a new iPod for a combined birthday-anniversary gift. To this day, it is one of the most-used gifts we own. In fact, Tony uses it almost as much as I do. And it really has proved to be a valuable means of grace in our lives. We both use it at the gym (just not at the same time — Tony prefers to do his Jazzercise alone), and it turns our workouts into precious time for meditation upon spiritual truth. It keeps us moving on road trips, and we listen to it daily at home. Even the kids have their playlists, from Narnia to Potter (the Beatrix one).

One way we are using the iPod lately is with a common “sermons” folder, where we each place favorite sermons from the week. It’s fun to see what the other is listening to, and to share in each other’s listening gems as time allows.

Although an mp3 player can be a bit of a stretch to the Christmas budget, they are becoming more affordable. Our four-year-old black and white flywheel model works just fine, and we recently pre-loaded a new Shuffle (these start under $100) for Tony’s dad with dozens of great sermons that he listens to all day at work.

Gift giving ideas: If you decide to invest in a new mp3 player, try to have it ready to play for your wife when she opens it. Pre-load it with sanctifying sermons and gospel-centered music. The Sovereign Grace store is an excellent place to start, where you can choose a song-at-a-time from the Songbox, and download hundreds of great sermons for free. Even without an iPod or mp3 player, you can take the time to choose a few songs and sermons for her and burn them to CDs. Your thoughtful care for her soul will be a blessing in any electronic form.

Ultimately, the best gift you can give your wife is not one that can be wrapped in shiny red paper and tied with a bow. Centering your home around the Gospel, loving her as Christ loved the Church, and faithfully serving her in humility and grace is a gift that will prepare her heart not only for the year ahead, but for a lifetime with her Savior. Most importantly, the price tag of the gift doesn’t matter, because the ultimate price for our sin has already been paid by our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Loving her with this glorious Gospel is a priceless gift.

May God be glorified in your homes this Christmas!

Stay tuned this week as we serve up gift-giving ideas for:

Books for Your Bride

tsskare.jpgby Karalee

Here at the TSS home base, we love fall. It’s the time of year when the Red Sox win the World Series, hunting season opens, and the kids dress up for Reformation Day.

It’s also the time of year when Tony does his Christmas shopping.

It usually goes something like this:

Tony comes into the kitchen with a big smile on his face and says, “Kare, I just made your life easier.”

“Oh, really? You finally fixed the shower door? Thank you!” I respond, with a big smile and a hug.

“Well, no. But I bought my Christmas present, so you don’t have to worry about shopping for me. Isn’t that great?”

“Oh, I was planning to help you grow in humility this year, by not getting you anything,” I say with feigned concern.

He then shares the details of what bookstore had an unbeatable deal on a complete set of Puritan works, or how he just found the hard-to-find works of a Puritan that Charles Spurgeon said should grace the shelves of every proper Christian library. And how he kindly purchased said bargain for himself for Christmas.

What a guy.

Truthfully, Christmas at the Reinke house usually does involve books, because our tradition is give books to one another as Christmas gifts. (Big surprise, I know.)

But we’ve found an interesting truth in our Christmas shopping tradition: sometimes the hardest thing to buy for someone else is a book.

Will they like it? Will they read it? You really have to know someone to be able to choose a book for them. Which is exactly why we like to buy books for one another at Christmas. It’s a gentle prodding to make sure we are involved in each others’ lives enough to be able to thoughtfully choose a book.

So in case you want to join our tradition this Christmas, (that’s the buying books for one another tradition, not the buy yourself a Christmas present tradition), we’ll be sharing some ideas for buying books for your wife. From the fiction fan to the memory maker, we’ve got ideas that will be sure to make her forget the hundreds you’ve spent on Tony’s book recommendations so far this year.

But first, a quick word about the book lists we’ll be sharing this week. Noticeably absent are the many excellent books on how to be a better wife, how to be more organized, how to homeschool your children, or how to be a better parent. It is our joy to recommend those titles throughout the year, but the recommendations in these posts are intended as Christmas gifts and for that reason we have avoided recommending books centered on personal improvement.

Ultimately, the best gift you can give your wife is not necessarily one that can be wrapped in shiny red paper and tied with a bow. Centering your home around the Gospel, loving her as Christ loved the Church, and faithfully serving her in humility and grace is a gift that will prepare her heart not only for the year ahead, but for a lifetime with her Savior. May God be glorified in your homes this Christmas!

Stay tuned this week as we serve up gift-giving ideas for: